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Gearing up for SD Pride

Follow Benny's thought process as he focuses in on how he - and we all - begin to gear up for our own San Diego Pride festivities.

I don't like to nag, but....

Today at 1 p.m. there will be a Marriage Equality Rally in front of the Federal Building at Front and F Street.

Pop Op: In the scavenger hunt of life ...

If only life was as simple as a scavenger hunt where you have 6 hours to find 50 items and solve 37 riddles and get yourself across Los Angeles in traffic to take pictures at all of the locations.

Chasing "the scene" or making time for me?

A couple of months ago, Benny was confident in his public declaration that he was not going to tan this year; that is, until he attended his first pool party of the season.

Pop Op: Letting go

One of the big themes of the Lost finale earlier this week was letting go and it inspired me to write a column; but since that topic wasn’t sexy enough, I thought to myself, what should we let go of? Then it came to me.

Speak up! Your community is listening

I believe there is a hugely silent majority in our community that has the great energy, passion and potential needed to be involved in our community.

Step up to the plate and get involved!

There are hundreds of organizations in town, statewide and nationally that need help. Even if it is an LGBT social or sporting organization, being a part of it is doing good for the community. Just do it!

Pop Op: International relations

With Arizona passing the stupidest immigration law ever, I thought it was time for me to travel south of the border on a little peace ambassador mission to improve international relations.

A mother's love is always worth the wait

Being gay, many of us have special, unique, or challenging relationships with our mothers. Some of my friends have totally accepting moms, who go so far as to party at Urban Mo’s with them.