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Girl's Night Out: San Diego still has lots to celebrate, post-Pride

Editor's Note: Check out the nightly social scene week after week with Bianca! If you know of events that aren't listed, feel free to send her a head's up on anything that's not currently on her radar. Tune in!

SPECIAL NOTE: Tori Roze, host of the Ruby Room's Tuesday night "Female Fronted Bands that Rock!" was just chosen as one of the latest top 10 of "San Diego’s Favorite Voice" by NBC San Diego!

Help Tori become a contender on the new hit show The Voice by voting for her on the NBC San Diego Facebook page this Friday! That's when Tori's Round #5 will be up on the page, ready for voting!!


Happening Thursday – July 21st>

Rich’s – Repent’s Facebook Party! – 9:30 pm

Don't miss out on the #1 Lesbian Event in SD.

This Thursday, DJ Kiki will be rockin’ the beats for Repent’s Facebook peeps, at none other than Rich's Nightclub in Hillcrest. Cover is FREE if you are a Facebook fan of Repent! Otherwise cover is just $5.

Happening Friday – July 22

Brass Rail – WIRED: A Night of DJs - 9 pm

Head over to the Brass Rail at 9 pm for WIRED and a night of fabulous DJs! Back by popular demand! Experiences three incredible DJs in one night!!! Dance the night away to DubStep, Top 40s, Mash-ups, and amazing house music. No Cover before 9 pm!

Happening Saturday – July 23

Numbers – Femme Fatale - 9 pm

Well, this Saturday at Numbers, is Femme Fatale!! Expect new and fresh lesbian events every week, like ‘80s parties, masquerade balls and special summer-time events. Dynamic crowds, invigorating themes and rotating deejays will keep you on your toes. Expect something new every week at Femme Fatale, as it is consistently inconsistent every Friday in a delicious way.


Happening EVERY Tuesday

Ruby Room – Ruby Tuesdays! – 9 pm

Female Fronted Bands That Rock are back - after kicking off June 21st in a new location. Hosted by the lovely and sultry Tori Roze, this event is now only at the Ruby Room in Hillcrest! You just missed Enreverie, Beer Money, Wendy Bailey, and Red Abbey, on July 19th, but keep checking back HERE for the line-up of next week’s female fronted bands.

Each week while getting your grooves on with these LIVE bands, get your gypsy on, too, by having your TAROT Cards Read by me, Bianca. Get those pertinent questions answered! TAROT Card Readings cost just $1.00 per minute! AND see fantastic ART by our Mister Andy! There is a suggested $2 donation and the event is 21+.


Happening EVERY Tuesday

Gossip Grill – Trashy/Classy Karaoke Night – 7 pm

Every Tuesday night enjoy yourself at Gossip Grill with the ladies, and for some hilariously fun karaoke with our very own Miss Laura Jane. Get your dinner on, and have a night full of friends, great food, good laughs, and songs with the ladies! Who could ask for more? No Cover.

Happening EVERY Wednesday

U-31 – We Wednesdays - 9 pm

Women’s Entertainment recently launched the newest and hottest night for women at U-31 in North Park. This Wednesday, enjoy the beats of Miki Vale and NiomieSoulFly. Come enjoy some underground hip-hop, soul, dancehall, and rare grooves. Break up the monotony of your week at We Wednesdays. No Cover.

Bourbon Street – Latin Night

Come to Bourbon Street Bar and Grill in University Heights on Wednesdays, starting at 8 pm for Latin Night and dance your night away to only the best Latin beats! No Cover.

Happening EVERY Thursday

Rich’s – Repent – 9:30 pm

Repent, held weekly at Rich's Nightclub in Hillcrest, is a dynamic mixture of cocktail and coyote ugly with a ton of lesbian vigor thrown in! It is notoriously packed every Thursday night and has had Hillcrest raving! And when you hear the church bells ringing, expect an epic performance from the talented and beautiful Repent bartenders. Thursday is the new Friday at Repent! Cover is $6 before 10 pm, $8 from 10 pm - 11 pm, and $10 after 11 pm.

(Note: See information about this week's special Repent event above, happening Thursday, July 21.)

Happening EVERY Friday

The Flame - Soul Kiss Fridays – 10 pm

You may not realize it, but The Flame is now the only ladies Nightclub in San Diego and they are giving the women here a full scale night club of their own. Don’t miss Soul Kiss on Fridays and enjoy all of the underground hip-hop that you love!

DJ Gigi will be in the front room with the best hip-hop, dance hall and more underground beats. Meanwhile, DJ Shedonistic will be rocking the back of the house with dance, house, Baltimore/Jersey Club, Raggaeton, and high energy mixes! The doors will open at 10 pm. $5 until 11 pm and $7 after 11 pm.

Happening EVERY Sunday

Bourbon Street Bar and Grill – Ladies Night

Come to Ladies Night every Sunday at Bourbon Street Bar and Grill in University Heights, for hip-hop and house music. Win cash and prizes by competing in the Booty-Shaking Contest. Enjoy the outdoor heated patio or the indoor dance floor. Also, enjoy Bourbon Street’s delicious bar treats. No Cover.

Happening EVERY Day and Night

Gossip Grill

Every day or night of the week, feel free to indulge in San Diego’s premier all-lesbian bar and grill. Great music, good eats, dynamic and friendly environment for lesbians seven days a week. Gossip Grill is always decked out in playful and sexy lesbian art. Also spicy is the clever sexual titles and entrees in the menu! Dine inside or outside, or just unwind with your community. Also, unwind at the Hump Day Gossip Hour every Wednesday, from 7 am to 1:30 am. No Cover.

Bianca Waxlax is a freelance writer for SDGLN who also has written for Lavender Lens Magazine. She loves to write articles about national and world news relating to LGBT issues, film reviews and health topics. To reach Bianca with questions or news about this column, contact her via email at biancawaxlax@yahoo.com.

Waxlax is also an acupuncturist who practices at the Center Health in Normal Heights and at the Levas Physical Therapy and the Hoeck Physical Therapy office in La Jolla. To learn more, visit biancawaxlax.com.