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Girls Night Out: A move to the social side of things

Editor's Note: Bianca Waxlax's popular weekly column "Girls Night Out" has been moved to the Social section with a slight change of format, so we can more accurately identify and convey all the exciting opportunities available to women to socialize right here in San Diego. Everything from emerging artists, women-fronted bands, karaoke nights, open mic, spoken word, social gatherings and places to dance your stress off. If you are producing or participating in a women's event, make sure you bring it to Bianca's attention for inclusion.


Happening Friday – June 10

Brass Rail – WIRED - 9 pm

This Friday come and see DROPJOY and Wendy Bailey!

Wendy Bailey will be playing LIVE from 8:30 pm to 9:30 pm. Not only is she an epic acoustic performer, Wendy is also a certified Rocker!

Immediately following, from 9:30 pm to 11:00 pm is DROPJOY. Dropjoy provides a melodic voice (courtesy of front-woman Nicki Walker), complimented by both relentless percussion and complex and moving bass lines. Then, from 11 pm to 2 am is everyone's favorite DJ Kiki, providing the beats that you can dance your night away to. Don’t miss WIRED this Friday!

Happening Saturday – June 11

Numbers – Femme Fatale Saturdays - 9 pm

Don’t miss your chance to win a FREE pair of Rihanna tickets this Saturday! Your favorite resident DJ Myxzlpyx will be droppin’ the beats. Dance it up, and relax on the outdoor patio, as well.


Happening EVERY Wednesday

U-31 – We Wednesdays - 9 pm

Women’s Entertainment recently launched the newest and hottest night for women at U-31 in North Park. This and every Wednesday, enjoy the beats of Miki Vale and NiomieSoulFly. Come enjoy some underground hip-hop, soul, dance-hall, and rare grooves at U-31. Break up the monotony of your week at We Wednesdays. No cover!

Bourbon Street – Latin Night

Come to Bourbon Street on Wednesdays starting at 8 pm for Latin Night! Enjoy only the best Latin music afterwards, and dance your night away to Latin beats!

Happening EVERY Thursday

Rich’s – REPENT – 9:30 pm

Repent is a dynamic mixture of cocktail and coyote ugly with a ton of lesbian vigor! It is notoriously packed every Thursday night and has had Hillcrest raving! And when you hear the church bells ringing, expect an epic performance from the talented and beautiful Repent bartenders. Thursday is the new Friday at Repent!

Happening EVERY Friday

The Flame - Soul Kiss Fridays – 10 pm

The Flame is now the only ladies Nightclub in San Diego and they are giving the women here a full-scale nightclub of their own.

Don’t miss Soul Kiss on Fridays and enjoy all of the underground hip-hop that you love! DJ Gigi will be in the front room with the best hip hip, dance hall, and more underground beats. Meanwhile, DJ Shedonistic will be rocking the back of the house with dance, house music, Baltimore/Jersey Club, Raggaeton, and high energy mixes. The doors will open at 10 pm. Cover is $5 until 11 pm and $7 after.

Happening EVERY Sunday

Bourbon Street Bar and Grill – Sundays are Ladies Night

Come to Ladies Night every Sunday at Bourbon Street for hip-hop and house music. Win cash and prizes by competing in the Booty-Shaking Contest. Enjoy the outdoor heated patio or the indoor dance floor. Also, enjoy Bourbon Street’s delicious bar treats.

Happening EVERY Day and Night

Gossip Grill

Every day or night of the week, feel free to indulge in San Diego’s premier all-lesbian bar and grill. Great music, good eats, dynamic and friendly environment for lesbians seven days a week. Gossip Grill is always decked out in playful and sexy lesbian art. Also spicy is the clever sexual titles and entrees on the menu. Dine inside or outside, or just unwind with your community. Also, unwind at the Hump Day Gossip Hour every Wednesday, from 7 am to 1:30 am.

Bianca Waxlax is a freelance writer for SDGLN who also has written for Lavender Lens Magazine. She loves to write articles about national and world news relating to LGBT issues, film reviews and health topics. To reach Bianca with questions or news about this column, contact her via email at biancawaxlax@yahoo.com. She is also an acupuncturist who practices at the Kwan Yin Holistic Center in South Park, and at the Levas Physical Therapy and the Hoeck Physical Therapy office in La Jolla. To learn more, visit biancawaxlax.com.